The Four Relationship Styles

The Four Relationship Styles : How Attachment Theory Can Help You in Your Search for Lasting Love by Dr. Anita Knight Kuhnley. Whether we know it or not, relationship styles cause some people to naturally thrive in relationships and others to struggle. According to attachment theory, we tend to experience love in predictable ways–some of which are healthy and some of which are not–based on our style and that of our partner.